People confuse love with enabling. They "love" a person so much that they can't tell them no. They FEAR that if they tell the person the truth that they will get upset or offended so they just sit & watch the person walk on the path to destruction & say "I love u". without warning the person. God's word tells us in 1 John 4:18
"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love." KJV ---So if we "love" someone we shouldn't be afraid to tell them the truth. Instead of watching someone do something that u KNOW is harmful to their mind, soul, or body and saying "I love u" as they continue to harm themselves why not just tell them the truth. They will thank u for it later; and if they don't then u still did the right thing. Love is NOT sitting back and doing nothing. Love someone to life with the truth don't love them to their death by enabling them
